A Greater Victoria Downsizing Resource

The Empty Nester's Guide to Downsizing in Victoria, BC

Less house. Less maintenance. More freedom. The difficult part is figuring out how to get from where you are now to what comes next.

If you've spent 20, 30 or even 40 years in your home, downsizing can feel overwhelming. This guide will help you work through the decision, declutter without trying to do everything at once, understand the financial picture, and decide what you really need from your next home.

Start With the Downsizing Roadmap

Downsizing Isn't Really About Square Footage

For many empty nesters, the decision starts with a simple realization: the house that worked beautifully when the family was at home may no longer fit the life you're living today.

Maybe there are rooms you rarely use. The garden takes more time than you'd like. You're thinking about retirement or travelling more. Or perhaps you're simply wondering whether some of the equity tied up in your home could be put to better use.

But knowing that a smaller home might make sense and actually making the move are two very different things. The biggest obstacle is often not real estate at all.

It's everything that has accumulated along the way.

Furniture, photographs, children's belongings, tools, paperwork, keepsakes and decades of memories can make the idea of moving feel exhausting before you've even started.

The solution is not to tackle everything at once. The solution is to create a plan.

Your Downsizing Roadmap

You don't have to make every decision today. Think of downsizing as a series of smaller decisions.

1. Explore
Is moving actually right for us?
2. Run the Numbers
What would we realistically have after the move?
3. Decide
Stay, move soon, or create a longer-term plan.
4. Declutter
Reduce belongings gradually and systematically.
5. Prepare
Decide what your current home actually needs before selling.
6. Find
Identify the home and lifestyle you want next.
7. Sell
Choose the right pricing, marketing and timing strategy.
8. Move
Coordinate the transition without unnecessary chaos.

Step One: Should You Downsize at All?

Before sorting a single closet, decide whether moving would actually improve your life. There is nothing wrong with deciding that your current home still works for you.

Ask yourselves:

☐ How many rooms in our home do we actually use regularly?

☐ Are maintenance and yard work becoming a burden?

☐ Do stairs concern us now or potentially in the future?

☐ Would we rather spend more time travelling or pursuing other interests?

☐ Would releasing some home equity improve our retirement lifestyle?

☐ Do we want to remain in our current neighbourhood?

☐ Would we miss our garden or enjoy having less outdoor maintenance?

☐ Do we still need space for adult children and grandchildren to stay?

☐ If we could design our life five years from now, would this still be the house we'd choose?

The Part That Stops Most People: Decluttering

Don't start by saying, "We need to clean out the house." That's too big a job.

Instead, work in small areas for 20–30 minutes at a time. One drawer. One shelf. One section of a closet.

The Six-Pile Method

KEEP GIVE TO FAMILY SELL DONATE RECYCLE / DISPOSE DECIDE LATER

Give yourself permission to have a “decide later” category. Emotional items don't have to be dealt with first. Momentum matters more than perfection.

Room-by-Room Decluttering Checklist

Kitchen

☐ Duplicate cookware    ☐ Small appliances    ☐ Extra dishes
☐ Pantry    ☐ Serving pieces    ☐ Items rarely used

Bedrooms & Closets

☐ Clothing    ☐ Shoes    ☐ Linens    ☐ Luggage
☐ Children's stored belongings    ☐ Extra furniture

Office & Paperwork

☐ Old bills    ☐ Tax records    ☐ Manuals
☐ Shredding    ☐ Important documents    ☐ Digital backups

Garage / Workshop

☐ Tools    ☐ Gardening equipment    ☐ Paint
☐ Sports equipment    ☐ Seasonal items    ☐ Storage boxes

Sentimental Items

☐ Photographs    ☐ Family heirlooms    ☐ Artwork
☐ Children's keepsakes    ☐ Collections    ☐ Memorabilia

Helpful rule: Don't ask, “Could I possibly use this someday?” Ask, “Would I choose to take this into my next home?”

What Should Your Next Home Have?

Downsizing successfully isn't about finding a smaller version of your current house. It's about choosing a home that supports the life you want next.

Your Next-Home Checklist

☐ One-level living or elevator access
☐ Minimal stairs
☐ Walk-in or easily accessible shower
☐ Main-floor laundry
☐ Enough storage
☐ Secure parking
☐ EV charging if needed
☐ Space for pets
☐ Guest room or flexible den
☐ Outdoor space you can realistically maintain
☐ Walkability
☐ Nearby shopping and services
☐ Access to transit
☐ Proximity to family and friends
☐ Strata fees that fit comfortably into your budget
☐ Building maintenance and contingency reserve fund
☐ Age, pet and rental bylaws that work for you

Think ten years ahead.

A few stairs or a bathtub-only bathroom may not matter today. The best downsizing purchase should work for the person you are now and the person you're likely to be later.

Do the Downsizing Math Before You Decide

One of the first things I recommend is working backwards from the financial outcome you want.

Estimated Home Sale Price
− Remaining mortgage
− Real estate fees
− Legal fees
− Home preparation costs
− Moving costs

= Approximate Net Sale Proceeds
Next Home Purchase Price
+ Property Transfer Tax, if applicable
+ Legal fees
+ Inspection / due diligence
+ Moving costs
+ Immediate improvements

= Approximate Cost of Your Next Home

The important number: How much money would actually remain after the entire move?

Should You Sell First or Buy First?

There isn't one correct answer. It depends on your finances, the market and how difficult it will be to find the right replacement property.

Sell First

You know exactly how much money you have available and avoid carrying two properties, but you'll need a plan if your next home isn't immediately available.

Buy First

You can wait for the right home, but you need to be financially comfortable owning two properties temporarily if your current home doesn't sell immediately.

Coordinate the Two

In some situations, possession dates and contract conditions can be structured to coordinate the transactions. This requires careful planning before you start shopping.

How Much Should You Do to Your Current Home Before Selling?

This is where homeowners can easily spend money they don't need to spend.

Before renovating, get advice about which improvements buyers in your particular market are likely to value. Sometimes fresh paint, landscaping, repairs, cleaning and thoughtful presentation are far more worthwhile than an expensive renovation.

Before spending money, ask:

☐ Does this repair affect buyer confidence?
☐ Will this improvement noticeably improve presentation?
☐ Is the improvement likely to affect market value?
☐ Would the next owner probably change it anyway?
☐ Could we sell successfully without doing it?

Frequently Asked Questions About Downsizing in Victoria

Click any question to expand the answer.

How do I start downsizing when I have decades of belongings?

Start very small. Don't begin with sentimental items. Choose an easy drawer, cupboard or closet and work for 20–30 minutes. Sort items into keep, family, sell, donate, dispose and decide-later categories. Small successes create momentum.

Should I declutter before contacting a Realtor?

No. In fact, speaking with a Realtor first can prevent unnecessary work. I can help identify which areas matter most for presentation and which things can wait. You do not need to have your home “ready to sell” before starting the conversation.

Should we renovate our house before selling?

Not necessarily. Repairs, cleaning, landscaping, paint and presentation can sometimes provide a better return than major renovations. The answer depends on your home's condition, price range, neighbourhood and what competing properties look like.

Is a condo or townhome better for downsizing?

It depends on the lifestyle you want. Condos can provide lower maintenance and security, while townhomes often provide more space, private entrances, garages and outdoor areas. Strata fees, bylaws, accessibility, building condition and long-term maintenance should all be considered.

Should we sell our current home before buying?

That depends on your financial position and how specific your next-home requirements are. Selling first provides certainty about your available funds. Buying first can give you more time to find exactly the right property. The best strategy should be decided before you begin making offers.

What should empty nesters look for in their next home?

Think beyond today's needs. Consider stairs, elevator access, laundry location, bathroom accessibility, storage, parking, outdoor maintenance, walkability, transportation, proximity to family and healthcare, and whether the home could continue working for you as you get older.

What if we're thinking about downsizing but aren't ready to sell?

That's actually an excellent time to start planning. Understanding your home's approximate market value, likely selling costs and realistic replacement-home options gives you information without requiring you to make a decision. A move might happen in three months, two years, or not at all.

How long should we allow for downsizing?

If you have lived in your home for many years, giving yourself several months can make the process much less stressful. You can begin sorting possessions and exploring housing options long before your home ever goes on the market.

Not Sure Whether Downsizing Makes Sense Yet?

You don't need to be ready to list your home to start the conversation.

I can visit your home, give you an idea of its current market value, discuss what—if anything— would be worth doing before selling, and help you understand what realistic replacement-home options look like in Greater Victoria.

No pressure. No obligation to sell. Just information and a plan.

Let's Talk About Your Options

Dawn Stokkeland | REALTOR®

eXp Realty
Helping Greater Victoria homeowners make thoughtful, well-planned real estate decisions.

REVIEWS

Hey Dawn, I can't thank you enough for all the help and the guidance you provided. It was greatly appreciated especially being a first time home buyer. I will definitely refer you to anyone who is looking for a realtor. Overall Rated 5 stars out of 5 5.00/5

Pranoy Menon

Dawn was fantastic from start to finish. She helped us find the best property for us in a tricky market (pricey and not a ton of inventory). We had pretty specific needs and she was great about finding appropriate properties to see, and wasn't impatient when she'd showed us a lot and we continued to look. Our ultimate purchase was in an area that she'd suggested and we weren't initially considering - but we are so happy we ended up here! Easy to work with, not pushy but definitely on the ball. Thank you! Overall Rated 5 stars out of 5 5.00/5

Kathryn Henderson

DAWN WAS VERY PATIENT WITH US AND EXTREMELY HELPFUL IN ALL ASPECTS OF THE PURCHASE. WE WOULD LIKE TO THANK YOU FOR THE EXTRA TIME SHE SPENT WITH US TO COMPLETE THE TRANSACTION Overall Rated 5 stars out of 5 5.00/5

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